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oh mi gosh!!!i almost couldn't enter.....coz the dumb thingy said my email does not exist when i log in n i kinda forgot which email i used...!!!!ish ish~!!!oh well...it's late so i beta finish this blog!!just came back from a long meeting 2day....liek 3 hours....lolx....n it was raining alllllll the way home.....was so afraid i couldn't c a brand new day....lolx....nono!!well just a lil sumtin dat happen 2day......

hmmm....so it was afta class.....n we went over to the food court to grab our tea time.....n blaaa blaa blaa.....so there was 4 of them when they started a discussion on this certain topic......n lolx....out of curiosity i joined them!!!guess wat....the topic's on relationship.....kinda sumtin dat's quite argumentative.....1 was so called seeking advices on a certain sumtin....while i was caringly trying to fill myself in.....as i listened i was much more able to understand the purpose of the discussion.....so he was givin out his opinions n all....n wat he needs....a cautious type of person...but yet tooooo cautious.....he's too worried about small things(ok not so small....but yes.....smallllllll) dat might actually let him lose sight of wat's gooooood......he said 'in the time when i was naive i did this n this' when we asked him to mention sum of his personal experience....n i was like....wat the???naive???he kept repeating dat...dude!!really none can be less naive den u were when any1 started....love is blind ain't it??so y stress on naivety??in fact love should be dat!!or is it??coz....y so serious???dun keep saying naive....wateva age we'll be just dat....perhaps oni when love is naive itself can it be closest to true love??perhaps??i dunno...lolx...well.....i'm thinking dat he's trying to find a perfect relationship in the way he speaks of it.....but in my opinion...relationships can be anytin but perfect!!just look at ourselves....n u can c many flaws already.....take a look at this blog....they're so mundane!!dat's a flaw....y being so cautious in everytin??i dun really understand dat...i mean i do get the meaning and purpose of dat....but....logically it's not really of any use rite??becoz....from observation,analysis,communication,feedback.....u can't c much....u can oni know a person deeper(and not even close to half....4 most i can say) when u step futher from the line of friendship......well...yes.....prevention from hurt is better den cure...but den again...how do we really know dat the result would be just hurt???not all relationship will end up liek dat....just becoz most do so we should think liek dat??sumtimes...i beliv it's just a guy being a guy and a gurl being a gurl is the real problems dat caused many problems in relationship....urmm....get wat i mean??just the difference between dat can already be so much of a problem....in fact....there's a 1001(times dat of a million) of factors can cause many different problems(people usually generalise them....but actually each problems are slighty-muchly different) in a relationship....sumtimes just a simple thing could even trigger an outbreak.....it really depends on both parties actually...attitudes...and many more.....there's much to be accounted for....tooooo many variables...oh gosh....i can't even start to mention....u'll hav to figure them out urself....even in attitudes alone there can be already 1001(times dat of a million) difference....dun mention character-wise...family background(history....yes they r a major factor too)....self-concious....lifestyle.....frens.....and u know wat....even the way 1 thinks of sumtin(how she/he thinks about dat particular thing) is already a variable.....so really...there's no DARN way of analysing anytin!!wat u could analyze and observe is soooo small dat it's become insignificant at times...unless....she/he has a major setback or flaws.....dat's...kinda obvious rite den??lolx....oh gosh!!

females.....a truly interesting subject....or subjects??haha....coz....each and every female is different from one another.....well at least guyz u can relate to each other wif a probability of similiarity close to 90%......therefore u can generalize men.....but 4 females!!huh!!!an evolving subject dat changes probably from the time period of 1 second to mebe....4eva??it's quite hard.....so dat's y...u can't even come close to knowing much of a gurl.....dun mention understanding....lolx...but there r ways too.....certain generalization or categorization.....it works 50% perhaps??haha....u know wat??i'm really sorry......i've gotta go sleep....i'm gonna revamp this post when i come back 2molo.....i think it's so dumb n not nice to read......forgive me.....

p/s:4 dat who knows who i speak of...pls offended do not be.....i will try to revamp into a beta-speech post.....gimme time....generally the idea is of such.....me forgive the blurness of thy words.....